Have you ever felt like what is YOURS, Belongs to everyone else? While kids were growing up, I had to sacrifice my sleep, my mealtime, my looks (many days looked like a hobo!), new pair of jeans, shoes, etc. so the kids could have the latest apparel that would last a whole month if they didn't grow out if it before than. Today... I guess I have to borrow the van when I want to use it. WTH???? Seriously???? The joys of motherhood!